Tutoring runs on standing weekly slots, which sounds like it needs no messaging at all. In practice the slot moves constantly — illness, exams, holidays, a fixture — and every unmanaged move is either a wasted hour for you or an unhappy parent.
Protect the standing slot
export const lessons = { // Weekly, short, easy to answer. Not a reminder so much as a checkpoint. weekly: (c: Ctx) => `${c.tutor}: still good for ${c.day} at ${c.time}? Reply Y or N.`, reschedule: (c: Ctx) => `No problem. I've got ${c.slotA} or ${c.slotB} this week — ` + `or we can skip and pick up as normal next ${c.day}.`, termAhead: (c: Ctx) => `${c.tutor}: exams are ${c.examPeriod}. Worth adding a session ` + `in the ${c.weeksBefore} weeks before — they fill up. Want one?`,};Offering the skip makes people less likely to take it
Counter-intuitive, but consistent: a parent given an easy out usually takes the alternative slot instead, because you removed the guilt that would otherwise have made them cancel silently. The ones who do skip would have skipped anyway, and you found out in time to fill the hour.
The progress note is what renews the booking
Parents cannot hear what happens in the lesson. A three-line note after each session — what was covered, what to practise, what improved — makes the value visible and turns the renewal conversation into a formality.
- Say what was covered, specifically enough that it is clearly about their child.
- Say what to practise, so home time is useful rather than guessed at.
- Say what improved. Even a small thing. This is the line parents actually read.
- Be honest when a week was poor. It makes the good weeks credible.
Messaging a minor needs the parent's consent and, usually, their visibility
For under-18s, the safeguarding default is that logistics go to the parent, or to a thread the parent is in. If you do message a student directly — common with teenagers arranging their own lessons — get written parental permission first and keep the content strictly about the lesson. Consent before you text and childcare and schools both apply.
Music teachers have one addition worth making: recordings. A short clip of a piece at the start of term and again at the end does more to justify a year of lessons than any amount of description.
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